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Whether new to Swinging or old
hands, we ask you to familiarise yourself with the general
Etiquette expected at Swingers Junction. This will allow
for both you and the other participants to have a more
enjoyable experience.
We only have a few rules at Swingers Junction, but those
must be adhered to, to ensure the maximum enjoyment and
safety of all guests; you will find these posted below.
When joining a guest list, it is considered polite to turn
up! Obviously, circumstances do change and you may not be
able to attend, it would be very much appreciated if you
could let us know in advance of the party so we may allow
your place to go to another guest and prepare the buffet
for appropriate numbers.
Our parties are very social events, so please make the
effort to ensure sure that before leaving for a swing event
that you are well groomed and dress to impress.
If you are attending a couple's party it is important to
arrive with your partner. It is inappropriate to arrive
separately. You should not attend a couples only event if
you are single.
You and your partner should discuss before the party what
level of participation you are both comfortable with, and
perhaps agree a ‘safe’ word to ensure you both remain
comfortable with the situation at all times; this can avert
confusion at the party! If you and your partner enter into
a disagreement, the best thing is to leave the event until
you can resolve the conflict in private.
It is considered inappropriate to come high or stoned. It
is also considered poor etiquette to become intoxicated at
a swing party. Not only is this inappropriate for the other
guests, but you may find yourself doing things that you
don't really want to. If you are considered to be effecting
the enjoyment of others due to intoxication we shall ask
you to leave.
You should never do something with which you are
uncomfortable. It is always important to say yes only when
you mean yes and to clearly say no when you mean no.
Appropriate etiquette when turning down a sexual
proposition is to simply say, "No, thank you." Do not give
an explanation because it is unnecessary and often leads to
more hurt than just a simple refusal. If you proposition
someone and they say no, never pressure or coerce the
person and do not ask for an explanation. Of the utmost
importance is that all participants be willing
participants. If someone pressures you after you say no you
should immediately report this to the host. If you pressure
or coerce someone, and are reported to the host you will be
asked to leave.
Most guests at our parties find it easy to enter into
conversation with each other due to the relaxed environment
provided at Swingers Junction. It is important to us to
preserve this friendly ‘house party’ atmosphere, so please
do make the effort to introduce yourself to others and
enjoy the social side of our parties as well as the sex!
When wanting to get interment with another guest it is
suggested that you politely ask “May I/We join you?”;
although we do understand this is not always as easy as it
sounds! Sometimes eye contact is sufficient for the other
guest(s) to beckon you offer to join them. If you are to
shy to ask, or the music is too loud or the room too quiet,
then most guests don’t object to you touching non intimate
areas; if they respond by removing your hand it should be
taken as a NO and you should stop immediately. If however,
they reciprocate the ‘touching’ it is up to you all the
read the situation and slowly move on as appropriate.
Ideally, ask if it is OK first and don’t get offended if
they say no - It is NOT good form to ram you hand or other
parts of your body at them!
Most important of all, have a good time! This is a great
time to try new sexual activities, explore your wildest
fantasies in a respectful manner, and push the limits of
your sexuality and lifestyle. |
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House Rules
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We only have a few rules at
Swingers Junction, but these must be adhered to, to
ensure the maximum enjoyment and safety of all guests
• ‘No’ means ‘NO’, do not pressurise other guests,
including your partner!
• No red wine upstairs or in the playrooms please.
• No glass up stairs; accidents do happen and it would not
be pleasant to have an accident if you are naked would
it......
• No smoking in the building; Smoking shelter is provided
outside together with heaters for the colder evenings!
• No playroom doors to be closed - this is for your safety
(and our entertainment....)
• No ‘watersports’, anywhere - really, none.
• As a courtesy to other guests please place a towel under
you if naked (towels are provided in all play rooms and in
the changing area for the jacuzzi).
• Please use bins provided to dispose of items to be
disposed of - its your ‘waste’ please dispose of it
thoughtfully!
• No drugs of any sort will be permitted anywhere on the
premises. This is not a sop to the law; it is very much the
personal policy of the hosts. Any one found using drugs
will be asked to leave and there membership will be
terminated.
• Please do not bring escorts as this is a scene for
consensual adults and it's not in the spirit of things is
it.
• No ‘assaulting’ other guests; verbally or physically -
you will be asked to leave immediately; if we feel
charitable we might let you take your clothes with you....
• Must important rule of all; Enjoy the party!! Smile and
show your having a
good time! |
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