1. Can we join on the door at a party?
2. Can we attend a party as guests on a trial basis?
3. What exactly is Swinging?
4. How could the scene affect our relationship?
5. I am a single male, Can I join?
6. What is the dress code for the parties?
7. Are we too old/young to join?
8. What sort of people like to swing?
9. In this day and age is the scene safe?
10. Are there any club rules?
11. We are extra large, are there any size restrictions?
12. Do you supply condoms at parties?
13. I cannot have mail sent to my home, can correspondence be done via email?


1. Can we join on the door at a party?
Our parties are for guests only and are held in a private house. For both security reasons, to prevent free loading and persona non grata we must have advance booking. To allow joining on the door would not be in all our interests. However as we hold regular, so you won't have to wait long to enjoy yourself. Register today using the join form and you will be confirmed in time for the next party.

2. Can we attend a party as guests on a trial basis.
Sorry. No We do not offer a trial basis, as we want to attract genuine players and NOT curious spectators! Only bona-fide guests may attend parties for the reasons above. Established guests may ask to bring others with them on an occasional basis

3. What exactly is Swinging?
There are basically 3 categories. Social Swinging - where couples enjoy making love amongst others without swapping. They find it an erotic adventure with their own partner, adding spice to their love life. Soft Swinging - where couples make a conscious decision and effort to have sex with other partners, but refrain from the ultimate full penetration. Full Swinging - where partners make a conscious decision to swap and go all the way. Most parties and events are in practice social and soft swing. There is, however, normally some full-on swinging taking place between couples who already know each other, and have made a conscious decision to do so. There is never any pressure or obligation to swap, so just decide together how far you want to go, and play as much or as little as you like! Always take condoms and practice safe sex!

4. How could the scene affect our relationship?
If your relationship is strong AND you are on the same wavelength it can only enhance it. If however your relationship is weak or rocky, DON'T!

5. I am a single male, Can I join?
As a single male you are welcome to join the website, to meet other Playpals, as a general rule too many extra males can cause problems at parties, and upset the balance of couples at the event. Single males will only be able to attend parties specified as for singles, or singles and couples. Not single males will be allowed at couples only parties

6. What is the dress code for the parties?
The dress code for swing parties is smart casual for the gents and sexy or seethru or fetish for the ladies, this is not strict and many ladies wear smart casual, if they feel more comfortable. The dress code for fetish parties is strictly leather, rubber, latex, PVC, uniform or drag etc for both ladies and gents.

7. Are we too old/young to join?
There is no age discrimination in this scene. 70% of our members are 23 - 48, with our oldest member being 64! You MUST be over 18 to join. If you look close to 18 be prepared to scan some photo id or bring it with you, on your first visit.

8. What sort of people like to swing?
Our membership is very wide but predominantly ABC1's who like living life to the max. Most ladies are bi-sexual and most gents heterosexual. We have noted however an increasing number of younger bi-sexual couples.

9. In this day and age is the scene safe?
Swingers are probably the safest group around. We are all very conscious of the importance of Safe Sex at all times.

10. Are there any house rules?
Yes there are strict house rules and scene etiquette, most are common sense but need to be stressed. Go to the etiquette page for full details

11. We are extra large, are there any size restrictions?
In common with the population at large, members come in a variety of shapes and sizes, we do however hold parties specifically for the larger lady (BBW parties) where you may feel more comfortable.

12. Do you supply condoms at parties?
No, that is your responsibility!

13. I cannot have mail sent to my home, can correspondence be done via email?
All correspondence to registered guests and web site members is by email. You access your newsletter and events schedule via the private area of the website. Details of how to do this are sent to you on joining.